How IRIS Can Help:

Website:   www.irisRemembers.com

An IRIS advocate is a volunteer who assists the parents with creating memories of the baby, explaining options, answering questions, and assisting the parents before, during and/or after the death/delivery. This service includes the options of being a doula (labor coach) assisting with labor. Other options include taking pictures, making 3D sculpture of a child’s hands and feet, taking a lock of hair, and taking hand/foot prints using an inkless system. A Blessing cloth is available for those who choose to baptize/bless their child.  A comb with a fabric hair folder, fabric certificate folder, and a fabric photo folder are also available.

On average, an IRIS advocate will spend 8-10 hours in the hospital working with a family and the child. In the funeral home setting, without the parents or family members, IRIS advocates will spend approximately 4-5 hours working with the baby. Parents are always encouraged to take part in the process regardless of the location.